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The Spa Experience
Sometimes, I really want a massage. This usually happens after a pounding basketball game, a grueling bike ride with friends and colleagues, a heavy workout in the gym, or just after a stressful day in the office.
But today's massage parlors don't seem to specialize in massage. A few weeks back I went to Eusatcia Inn and the MPA simply wanted to go straight to the "extra." She admitted that she was totally ignorant on massage. Same experience happened when I went to Executive Health in Quezon Avenue and Spa 168 in Paranaque.
So I tried the spa inside the Manila Mandarin. I actually wanted to try the spa in Manila Penninsula, but all the attendants were fully-booked. So here's my first tip: if you want to try a massage in a five-star hotel, call and check the availability of the therapists. Nonetheless, the spa in the Mandarin was just as advertised---once you enter their premises in the 18t floor, you already feel you entered another world. The place was tranquil, serene, with soft sitars piped-in through the speakers. I signed up and was introduced to my therapist. At that point, I already realized that there will be no "extra service" here. First of all, I had no choice of attendant. Secondly, the therapist, medium-height and stocky, was nowhere attractive and I made a vow that she would in no way ever get near my dick.
But the massage was great. She knew how to work my body, kneading my tired muscles, pressing down hard with her thumbs. Her hands never came close to my genitals. Moreover, she kept a towel draped over my body and she only exposed the portions that she needed to massage. There was never a point where I was completely butt-naked.
In contrast, I went to Fusion Spa. Here, while the atmosphere was tranquil, the lighting subdued, there were sketches of naked women on the wall. If I wanted to relax, pictures of nude women would be the last thing I needed.
Plus you had a choice of therapists. And some of the therapists were pretty. Now, in an honest-to-goodness spa, does the attractiveness of the therapist really matter? You'll be spending half the time face-down on a mattress anyway. And if she isn't attractive, you can always shut your eyes, keep your mouth shut, and let her hands do the talking. Anyway, I chose a slim, smooth-skinned therapist. I was escorted to my room where she asked me to strip naked. She handed me a towel and I proceeded to the shower area. The shower room was pearl-white with controls that looked like it came from the space shuttle.
When I returned, the therapist was now clad in a sarong. And when I lay face-down on the bed, I stole a glance and saw that she was now stripped to a bikini attire. The massage progressed as a massage would, except that when she began kneading my thighs, she made no hesitation to brush my genitals with her fingers. She stroked my testicles, teased the crack of my ass, and then reached down and began stroking my manhood. She used both her hands, hand upon hand in the same way you would pull a rope except she was sliding instead of tugging. You knew that there would be a happy ending. There just had to be.
Only handjobs were offered. No straight, all-the-way action. I've been to Fusion three times. I tried different therapists. I tried even one who was just a trainee and that I was her first guest. All of them stuck to their guns---only handjobs. Some stroking of flesh is ok. One even allowed me to touch and have a mouthful of her breasts. But penetration is definitely not allowed.
I have heard that there are a number of spas that offer the same formula. On my list of spas to try next is Leaf (which is in Paranaque and within walking distance of Air Force One KTV) and Paradasia in H.V. De La Costa, Makati.
I admit that the spa massage-cum-handjob is getting to be a viable choice, especially now that I am beginning to notice the decline in massage parlor quality. At least in those spas, you can at least get a good massage plus some relief. In massage parlors, you may end up getting empty-handed.
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Yes, indeed Paradasia is alive and well. Except for the fact that the shower rooms are not inside the service areas, everything about it is top-quality service. The cubicles are first rate and you don't need aromatheraphy because they smell new and clean. The linen is luxurious and of course the massage is first rate. Even without the HJ, I will continue patronizing this spa. They even had a special offer last month of P800.00 for 1 1/2 hours. if what you are looking for is a decent rub down and just a slight release, this is the place to go. The service providers are likewise significantly attractive although this may prove to be a distraction if all you want is to have a good massage. Very discrete too.
Mr. B, is Paradasia still operating until today?
I know that as a general rule, spa's at 5 stars hotel, usually do not have ES. I once went to a spa in a 5 star hotel located i Ortigas after a work out. The attendant given to me was new and young. I know that getting a HJ would be next to impossible. But I guess was lucky as she agreed to give me a HJ on my first time there. After several visits, and I would always request her, she agreed to do all the way. Believe it or not, she never asked for anything, though I would leave her tip at the reception. The tip was twice what i paid for the massage. She soon left the spa and moved to another one, in a hotel along Shaw Boulevard. I followed her there and became her regular. We would meet outside when she is off. She never expected anything. One time, she got insulted when I gave her something. What an experience!
5 Star Hotel based therapists, which does room service, are really usually not expected to render ES; whether it's plain HJ or all the way...but when I used to stay often at the old Cebu Plaza Hotel between 2000-2003, before it closed, they had a fantastic set of in-house therapists, who, though, will not go all the way, but the way they sustained the HJ experience, it was awesome!
After a fantastic massage, in the privacy of the hotel room, limp from all the kneading, the manhood usually isn't, right? And when it's a dusky, tight bodied therapist, with a great face, shucking your manhood and caressing your balls, while looking deep in my eyes, isn't that fantastic! There was one therapist there who took me on a 30 minute journey of slow, fast, tight, relaxed, whatever (!) handling of my manhood...when I finally decided to let go, man was I so drained it really got me set for a great sleep!
Yes, I miss Cebu Plaza hotel, and the therapists there...I wonder where they moved?
More power to all!
Yes, can anyone share info on Paradasia? I noticed that it's not part of the list of MPs in this blog.
Are you allowed to choose the attendants in Paradasia? And where in HV dela Costa is it located?
Is Paradasia the one in Somerset Salcedo? If yes, its a pretty cool place. Good Massage, good HJ but shower and sauna is a bit of a walk from the therapy room not bad, just uncomfortable. The owner is a hottie too.
The Mandarin is really expensive... its not something I would do every week, even if I had the money ;-) Although, I heard Dusit now offers comparable service to Mandarin. Suriya is an affordable alternative to the these two... ambience is not the same but therapy is equal if not at times better.
ESP...
*chuckle* I just love the way the 7th paragraph ended: "There just had to be." I can't get the image of wishful yearning out of my head.
I tried early this week STARGATE SPA which is located at the 3/F of 2282 Pasong Tamo right in front of Makati Cinema Square. They offer the same formula of a good massage and/or body scrub together with HJ for a happy ending. The massage is only P700. The MPAs are young and attractive and have been taught to please the client, if you know what I mean. It is relatively new and very clean. My MPA could not go all the way but she agreed to do a BJ with no rubber!!! The location is off the beaten track and there is ample parking. What more can you ask for?
Does anyone knows the difference between the two? Apparently, you can get both services from these types of spas. Pray tell.
IMHO, Dukot and HJ are similar, but not totally the same. DUKOT or POCKET Massage (PM) is actually done when your lying face down on the mattress. The MPA aims to massage your balls and manhood as if she were massaging the other parts of your body. As it is, it mearly teases or entices one to really feel the urge of getting ES.
On the other hand HJ (Hand Job) is done face up or standing up or sitting down and it's aim is to masturbate you until juices come out.
In certain spas, ATW are prohibited and only DUKOT or PM or HJs are allowed. Thus, MPAs have been creative enough to find ways of satisfying their client/s and earning more from just the regular tips.
i believe that dukot is just the term they use for HJ's in massage parlors, but basically they're the same
Dragon Spa has pretty attendants, but price rather steep at P900.
Pero in fairness, their massage is actually more than decent.
If its real massage for a budgeted price , its better to go to those salons that offer full body massage. Its may not have those facilities like a steam bath or an es but the massage is good.
I've only been to two spas of this kind. Leaf and Dragon Spa.
Yung feeling sa Leaf is medyo rustic ang dating. The place was ok pero parang di masyado maganda yung ambiance. The girls were friendly lahat sila nasa counter area and you can talk to the before the massage. Basically, you can choose which therapist fits you best.
As for Dragon naman, (which BTW is in E. Rodriguez in Qc.) only the receptionist will greet you. Pero friendly and very accomodating din. The girls here are younger and prettier compared to Leaf (IMHO). The place looks better and more relaxing. Unang pasok mo the place really looks legit. And the therapists are good masarap magmasahe.
I wound up being a regular of Dragon Spa.
Would not recommend Leaf Spa. Got there about 830pm and the girls were sleeping....place looks run down. my friend went for the combi but I went instead to AForce 1 for massage plus. Will try dragon next round.
kkomiroon, would you care to recommend some girls at Dragon Spa (and their shift). Thanks.
Back in the days of my wayward but NOT misspent (parents, teachers and priests will disagree)youth, when sauna baths were quite new, MPAs knew quite a lot about massage. They knew how to get you all relaxed and unkink those muscles. Very few massage parlors are nowadays worthy of the name. The point Buwayahman brings forth is that the handjob finishes off the arousal from the MPA's ministrations. One could ask beforehand if she'd agree to a coupling afterwards, but if you couldn't meet her price, she'd finish you off with a handjob since you are face-up anyway at the end of the rubdown.
Even if you didn't have diddling in mind at the end, you'd wind up with a tent pole under your towel with all that rubbing and brushing against your cock and balls. Blowjobs were quite rare. There was the body massage for when intercourse wasn't an option. On a final note, these handjobs weren't plain wankings. They could delay the eruption and prolong the pleasure. I guess that is worth a separate article. There was a reason it was called sensation.
Dear Buwayahman,
Based on how you described your experience, it seems that the HJ came in the middle of the massage (when your thighs were being kneaded). My questions are:
1. Isn’t this messy (since you described your position as face-down), especially if she plans to continue with the massage afterwards? Ergo, should one signal the attendant if one is about to come?
2. Do they accommodate requests like position (standing up, facing up, etc.) or speed and grip (to prolong the act)?
3. Can you request more than one pop, say a HJ before the massage and another one as the finale?
Many thanks.
1. The HJ is performed with you lying on your back. I guess my post was not clear on this.
2. I have not tried any special "position" other than lying on my back while she strokes my manhood, though I had requested her to stop when I was about to come---just to prolong the pleasure!
3. Never tried but I would suppose that they will only accommodate one pop. It's no fun to have the HJ before the massage as part of the fun is when the therapist teases your genitals during the massage.
Hi,
There was an article in Phil For Men about Fusion before and it mentioned it wasn't that a good place. It also said that there's no point in handjobs for es. I forget who wrote it though.
If it were you, what changed your mind? Would there be a new review coming? And if it wasn't you, would you be writing a review anyway?
Thanks!
That was me who wrote the review. The reason why I didn't give it high marks is because I normally don't go to MPs for a handjob. For a sexual release, it still wouldn't be my first choice. But if I wanted an honest-to-goodness massage, I would probably consider it. I would treat the handjob as a "bonus."
I have on several occasions tried already the Leaf Spa. It's just like Fusion. In fact, based on my talks with the therapists here, most of them came from Fusion. Thus you would expect the same HJ thing on ES but no ATW. But please note that they do only HJ or ES for MTC guests and show off their bikini clad costumes only for these type of guests. On top of it, you get a 10-% discount if you avail of their service and tell them you are an MTC member and tell them your handle also. Price is very reasonable and the ES tip is up to you. You can even choose your therapist and have a different therapist should you avail also of their body wash. Of course, expect to give tips to these leaflets as they call them.
You also are given a Leaf Card, where if you have availed their service for ten (10) times, on the eleventh you get a free service.
Leaf Spa is located inside Boracay complex in Sucat. Boracay complex is on the right side coming from the Airport and before Air Force 1. You have to go inside the Boracay complex and it's on the right side coming from Sucat.
Hope this helps you and your readers.
Fusion now offers Fusion Massage which involves two therapists giving you a massage at the same time. Their prices have increased as the basic massage (sports, swedish or shiatsu) is now P950. While the MPAs are attractive, attentive and accommodating, I believe that they owe it to their customers to provide each room with a shower area in contrast to the present communal shower just like their communal toilet. I guess the lack of these things keeps the costs down but other establishments do provide these amenities.
They also have the body scrub with light massage (Prelude to ES actually). I thought that I made the mistake of agreeing to have the HJ in the shower during the Quickwash service instead of the cubicle. However, this proved to enhance my experience because during the light massage, the MPA was literally over me because she started licking the nipples of my gym workout enhanced chest and my upper body which led to a second titillating experience.
There are endless possibilities in this small place.
For a no hanky-panky massage, try the Splendour Spa along Quezon Ave., near the corner of Banawe on the side across Satno Domingo Church. Shiatsu, Swedish or combo (Shiatsu and Swedish) styles are for one hor and cost P380 in the communal room and 500 if you're shy. It really doesn't matter because you keep your shorts (provided) throughout and you are mostly face down or your eyes are covered with a towel when you turn face up. There is free use of the sauna and steam room and plenty of hot water for the showers that you have to try (individual stalls with side nozzles!).
You can rest for up to an hour after the massage and you can ask for iced tea - a glass will be served in the changing room. There is a salon at the ground level for grooming. It serves men and women - the women have separate accommodations, and it's all masseuses. It opens for business at 3pm and accepts clients unitl 12mn.