in Dating and Relationships

Another sex scandal?

In the ho-hum news department, another celebrity gets snarled in a sex scandal. So is this news? Why should it be news?

I am not going to provide details on who, what, where, whatever. I am sure you know who I am talking about. I am a guy so watching a male celebrity sex video does not interest me. If it were a genuine sexpot – think Marian Rivera – then I would probably be drawn to it. I am sure I am not the only one fantasizing a naked Marian Rivera in bed. I am also sure that there is no way I can get Marian inside a bedroom with me so a sex video is as close as I can get to boning Marian. Besides, there is also this curiousity factor of whether she is good in bed. Remember the Vivian Velez sex video? I was admit being drawn to that because she had those voluptuous curves and I genuinely wanted to find out  but when all is said and done the sex was pretty boring. I guess she knew that she was being filmed (back then, because of its sheer size, there was no way you could hide a video camera) so she probably was embarrassed and self-conscious. Curiously, you could still download that video from torrent sites.

Anyway, back to the present. I am just glad it isn’t much of news, that whoever is in charge of spin-doctoring the male celebrity did a good job of diffusing the controversy. Are sex videos becoming passé? Has it become humdrum?

Back in my day we were so craved for porn. To watch porn we needed access to a VHS or Betamax machine, which was probably in our parent’s bedroom and which meant we could only watch it when they weren’t around. Now it’s so easy to find porn and we can watch it in our tablet devices with headphones in the privacy of our own bathrooms. I haven’t jerked off to porn for ages, but I have watched porn while having sex. That’s a different story altogether.


On blackouts and motels

Typhoon Glenda left us with a number of casualties, scores of uprooted trees and Meralco posts, and a power outage that blacked out most of Metro Manila. Many households, especially those in the south, have had no power for more than 48 hours. Even the posh subdivision of Ayala Alabang was not spared – according to my friends and relatives in that area, more than half of the subdivision still has not electricity.

So it’s no surprise that, as I drove inside Victoria Court Cuneta last Friday evening, the usher ran up to me and warned that we had to wait a little bit longer as there were no rooms available.

The Married Gigolo

The married man has a certain allure to some women. I consulted a female friend of mine who had a couple of affairs with married men and another female friend who is currently a mistress to a married man. Both echoed the same sentiment—the allure of the married man is not that he is forbidden fruit but that he is a proven item. He is proven to be desireable enough for at least one woman to pledge lifelong loyalty and fidelity. You can surmise that he has at least some experience in bed—and if has children, then you can further surmise that he has had multiple experiences in bed—with enough expertise to warrant a woman to have multiple experiences with him.

I guess that is why there is a market for male escorts who are also married.